Distracted driving is not a new phenomena. There have been cases of people putting on make-up while they drive, people eating while they drive and many other silly things. Cell phones have increased distracted driving and the results are chilling. There have been so many accidents because of people using their cell phones while driving. In one of the examples in our module, Courtney Sanford wanted to post to Facebook that a song made her happy. She decided that this was a great thing to post while she was driving. That decision cost her her life. A 32 year old woman died because she was trying to post to Facebook. It is just not worth it. My cell phone company has an app called Drive Mode. I have to turn it on, but if I do, my phone will sense when I'm driving and if someone calls or texts me while I'm driving, my phone will answer them with either a voice saying I'm driving and I'll call them back when I'm parked if they've called or a text saying the same thing if they have texted me. I used to have it turned on and it helped me to get out of the habit of looking at my phone while driving. Now, if it rings or I get any kind of notification, I just ignore it until I've parked. Nothing is so important that I need to look at it while I'm trying to drive my car.
Something else that I thought was interesting in this module was the information about screen time and kids. My husband are in a constant battle with our thirteen year old about screen time. I loved the suggestions as part of the AAP Media Plan. I do think it is good to model good behavior. My husband and I do not use screens during dinner and we do not allow any devices at the table. I think this helps to show our son what is expected.
Psychology Of SocialMedia-Heather Bladen
Thursday, March 8, 2018
Friday, March 2, 2018
Week Seven
It is awesome to see examples of the positive aspects of social media. When I think how much our world has changed since social media became popular, it really amazes me. I don't even think about it much any more but my local school announces school closings through Facebook and Twitter, I see breaking news on Facebook and use it to find out about new businesses. It just seems normal, it is an every day part of my life. I've witnessed and participated in GoFundMe campaigns. I used Yahoo Personals to meet my husband. Yahoo Personals doesn't exist anymore (we've been married for ten years) but many other such sites have been the beginning of great relationships. It is also great to see Crowdsourcing. When a group of people can get together from anywhere in the world and solve crimes or participate in research, it is truly amazing. I have also seen evidence of slacktivism. One of my personal pet peeves is the Facebook "game" where some well-meaning woman sends a Facebook message encouraging the participation in the "game". You are supposed to post some provocative message on Facebook and somehow this helps breast cancer research. The message says to keep the reason for the Facebook post secret. How then is it supposed to help anything? I've never really understood this. The message claims this whole thing got national media attention.
Below is the message that was sent to me. You can also see my response. This is slactivism at it's worst:
Below is the message that was sent to me. You can also see my response. This is slactivism at it's worst:
Hi beautiful ladies so here it is the time of year again when we try to raise awareness of breast cancer through a game. Its very easy and i would like all of you to participate. Last year we had to write the colour of our bra's on our status. Men wondered for days what was going on with random colors on status's. This year we make reference to our love life status as a flavor. Do not answer to this message just post corresponding word on your status and send this message privately to all the girls on your friends list.
Blueberry - single
Pineapple - its complicated
Raspberry - I dont want to commit
Apple - engaged
Cherry - in a relationship
Banana - married
Avacado - I'm the better half
Strawberry - can't find Mr. Right
Lemon -I want to be single
Raisin - I want to get married to my partner.
Last time the bra game was mentioned on t.v let's see if we can get there with this one. Please resend this to all your girly friends then update your status with your answer ONLY! DONT TELL ANY GUYS!
Heather
This does nothing for breast cancer awareness.
Nothing
Sunday, February 25, 2018
Week six
Social media can be a negative social amplifier.
Being online makes people act differently than they would in real life. It would be very unlikely for a random person to just come up and shout at another person but online, trolls are everywhere. Because they are behind a screen and they cannot see the other person, they do not feel guilty about the behavior.
Teens are also effected by this new technology. Teens have always wanted to follow their peers but because of the Internet and social media, trends happen faster and negative behavior spreads faster. "Now, because of the Internet we see that worldwide cultures are changing at warp speed." Susan Lipkins (Of Cigs and Selfies: Teens Imitate Risky Behavior Shared Online)
We have also seen the phenomena of oversharing. I had one former Facebook friend that shared something like this daily "did five loads of laundry, mopped the floors, made chicken for dinner". I did not understand why this person felt the need to post this on a regular basis but she is not the only one to do so. The Youtube video "The dangers of oversharing on social media" gave us one good example of why this tendency can be a bad idea. The article on CNN.com by Matthew Stucker is another very good reason to keep your private business off social media. When someone loses a judgement to the tune of $80,000, that is a very hard lesson.
We all have to remember that when it comes to free apps, we are the product. Nothing is really private when it is on the Internet.
Being online makes people act differently than they would in real life. It would be very unlikely for a random person to just come up and shout at another person but online, trolls are everywhere. Because they are behind a screen and they cannot see the other person, they do not feel guilty about the behavior.
Teens are also effected by this new technology. Teens have always wanted to follow their peers but because of the Internet and social media, trends happen faster and negative behavior spreads faster. "Now, because of the Internet we see that worldwide cultures are changing at warp speed." Susan Lipkins (Of Cigs and Selfies: Teens Imitate Risky Behavior Shared Online)
We have also seen the phenomena of oversharing. I had one former Facebook friend that shared something like this daily "did five loads of laundry, mopped the floors, made chicken for dinner". I did not understand why this person felt the need to post this on a regular basis but she is not the only one to do so. The Youtube video "The dangers of oversharing on social media" gave us one good example of why this tendency can be a bad idea. The article on CNN.com by Matthew Stucker is another very good reason to keep your private business off social media. When someone loses a judgement to the tune of $80,000, that is a very hard lesson.
We all have to remember that when it comes to free apps, we are the product. Nothing is really private when it is on the Internet.
Sunday, February 18, 2018
Week Five
The topic
of fake news is a very timely one and a very interesting one to delve into.
Most that use the term are more likely describing news items that they do not
like or reports that show them in a negative way. This is not fake news. Something
else that has become popular is propaganda. It also used to be called yellow journalism.
It is usually more concerned with grabbing attention than having much content
or with any kind of real research. It is bad journalism and it is considered
unethical by most that call themselves journalists.
Another
interesting topic is what shows up on our social media feeds and how it gets
there. Facebook has been under a lot of scrutiny for the algorithms they use. Other
sites are guilty of the kind of personalization that they think users want. As
Eli Pariser points out in his TED talk Beware the filter bubbles, “this moves us very quickly toward a world in which the Internet is showing us
what it thinks we want to see, but not necessarily what we
need to see.” We may be uncomfortable seeing posts about gun control or
the most recent mass shooting but we all need to have these kinds of
discussions if anything is going to change. Change is never comfortable, it is
never easy. The comparison Eli makes to eating is awesome “instead of a
balanced information diet, you can end up surrounded by information junk food.” We don’t always want to
make those healthy choices, but we need to. It is the same thing with the
content we are seeing on our news feeds and in our Google searches.
Sunday, February 11, 2018
Week four
We have learned how social media has changed everything from
journalism, to politics to our own brains. Most humans used to think of the
concept of “knowing” information as memorizing and retaining that information. Now
we just rely on Google to give us the information. It is amazing to witness the
power that social media has. It is really interesting what social media has done
to journalism. Now, it is more of a two-way street and anyone can report on
something. Something that Clay Shirky said has stuck with me “Because now that
media is increasingly social, innovation can happen anywhere that people can
take for granted the idea that we’re all in this together” I think the idea
that we’re all in this together is highlighted by what happened in Tunisia. Mohammed
Bouazizi just wanted everyone to know how unfairly he had been treated but I
don’t think he realize that the power of social media meant that his message
would spread and that the world would learn of the corruption. Most studies
show that the Arab Spring movement was not arranged through social media but
the coverage of it was spread much farther because of social media. That is
very powerful. Now, we have a politician that tweets just about every day. Good
or bad, there is no doubt that his use of social media has changed politics in
the United States forever. Politicians have known for quite a while that if
they want to run a successful campaign, they need to have a social media
presence but none of them have used it to the extent that our current president
has.
Saturday, February 3, 2018
Week three
This week we learned about the information age. We were
shown scientific proof that multi-tasking is not a productive way to get
anything done. It makes you do all the tasks poorly. Everyone tries multi-tasking
these days and they think they are doing so well and getting so much accomplished
but that is not the case. Our brains can lie to us. Our egos are also to blame.
Speaking of our brains, science has also discovered that the use of social
media releases dopamine. No wonder so many people are so addicted to it. The
TED talk by Abha Dawesar was very interesting. She spoke of time warping
technology and I have to say that I agree with what she had to say. One thing
she said was “The gap between what we can perceive and what we can measure is
only going to widen.” I think that everyone needs to take breaks from social
media. The more we can interact with the real people around us instead of
through screens, the better. I’ve heard of people that go out to dinner and
encourage everyone to put their phones face-down in the center of the table. If
anyone looks at their phone during dinner, that person has to pay for everyone.
I think that is a great idea because I see people all the time that are out
with each other and never look up from their phones. The only way to fight back
from the effect that social media is having on our brains is to avoid social
media when possible. I am to blame with this as well. I am trying to make more
of an effort to unplug from it after learning about the negative affects from
the TED talks and other videos we watched this week. My husband and I also make
our thirteen-year-old take time away from it daily. Every parent needs to
police screen time with their kids.
Friday, January 26, 2018
Week Two
This week, our topic was the history of social media. We all use these apps on a regular basis but do we really know much about them? I, for one learned quite a bit that I did not know. One of the videos that was included in our required materials mentioned that in twenty-four hours, the virtual Facebook game Farmville will sell more than one million in digital farm equipment and that digital farm equipment now outsells real farm equipment. (A Day in the Life of Social Media) That seems crazy to me. Humans are living more and more of their life digitally. I wonder what that is doing to our communication skills and how we inter-act with each other. It is also curious how much of ourselves we are willing to put out there for everyone to see. Humans used to value privacy, but it seems that everyone is willing to put all of their information on these sites now. On another video that was required, one of the panelists seemed to think that we are so willing to give up our privacy because we have this perceived notion that it is just our friends and relatives we are sharing with but if the privacy settings are not very strict, that is not necessarily true. It also makes me start to wonder more about the Internet Of Things. I am very wary of devices like Alexa because I do not know who Amazon is sharing my data with but most people have no problem with these kinds of devices. Why have we gone from being skeptical to being "all in"?
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